Re: The "Analog Bag" Trend aka "how to quit social media."

TW: addiction, recovery.

The trigger warning goes for the whole post, not just this meme, btw.

People are on TikTok loading up tote bags with offline activities to curb their doom scrolling. I'm watching a compilation video on YouTube right now, where someone commented that they remind them of the "Kid Kits" from the Baby-Sitters Club series, but for grown-ups, which is pretty hilarious to Elder Millennial me. On that note, puff painting and bedazzling cotton totes from Michael's for personalized "Analog Bags" would make a great ladies' night...

The point is to keep non-digital time occupying activities handy in a tote bag, so whenever you want to get off your phone, you can pick up the bag and quickly find something else to do. There seem to be two different kinds - the bag that stays at home, and the bag that's packed specifically for going out either alone or with friends.

I think people are trying to do two things with this one trend - address their social media addictions, and start to separate themselves from smart phones in general by replacing the phone's function in their lives. And I think this issue would be best addressed from these two different angles, not all in one like people are trying to do. I'm saying this as someone who has been social media free since April, and has gone on large (I'm talking multiple years at a time) social media breaks, and pre-social media on long message board community breaks, for decades now.

I don't have a particularly addictive personality. I have two addictions - sugar, and social media. And with addictions, you really need to just put it down and not pick it up again. You need to fully quit some apps. Get them off your phone, delete your account if you need to.

You probably ask how people will be able to contact you, particularly if you don't necessarily want them to know your phone number? Get an independent messaging app. I use Signal, personally, but whatever you and your people use. Do Not Use Facebook Messenger. That's some of the biggest spyware out there. And it makes it too easy to get sucked back into the main app. You're probably also wondering how you're going to get your news? You have a few options - bookmarking your favorite journalism outlets on your web browser and making a habit of visiting them directly, following news podcasts or television/video journalism, or downloading a dedicated news reader app. Yes, this means that, unless you have a dedicated app or keep NPR in your headphones all day, you have to be in a certain place and at a certain time to access your news. Trust me, that is a lot healthier than our 24/7 hyper-awareness. This makes it a lot easier to find balance and boundaries with your news consumption, and you will find your mental health improves.

The first two or three weeks are rough. They take a lot of willpower. And it's probably going to make you pretty angry that you're having this intense of a reaction for so long to a fucking app. Good. Get angry. You should be angry.

This is when having an analog bag full of distractions is useful. I also recommend cooking all your meals from scratch during this time. That makes time go by fast. This is also a great time to start an exercise routine, or really start focusing in on the one you already have. Centering yourself back in your physical body helps a lot during the digital DTs.

Now, what's in an Analog Bag? Like I said, there seems to be two versions, one that stays home, and one that goes out. The "Indoor Bag" is more like a hobby bag, whereas the "Outdoor Bag" is basically breaking out the smartphone into its analog components.

The content portion of these bags on TikTok is in a "what's in my bag?" format, and as for the kinds of things you can put in these bags, the influencers are suggesting items like...

• Their current read, and/or the next book on their TBR pile. The focus is on physical copies, but especially if you have an e-reader that doesn't have an app function, there's no reason to not keep a digital reader in here, too.

• Knitting, crochet, cross-stitch, and embroidery projects.

  • If you're into making small, easy, repetitive things, may I suggest hats and blankets for your local NICU? Knots of Love has both knit and crochet patterns available for free! Your local homeless shelters also appreciate donations of hats, scarves, mittens, and blankets, any time, but especially when it starts getting cold in the fall.

• Portable art kits, sketchbooks and pen/pencil sets. Watercolor sets with the water pens seem to be very popular.

• Adult coloring books and pens/pencils.

• Puzzle books: crossword, word find, sudoku, etc. Don't forget pencils and erasers.

• Jigsaw puzzles.

• Lego sets.

• A deck of cards for Solitaire games.

  • Not for everyone, but a deck of tarot cards, instructional book, and tarot journal would be a great addition, if learning to read tarot has been on your list for awhile.

• Bullet Journals, free-form journals, planners, scrapbooking materials.

• Stationary & stamps for letter and card writing.

• A watch (NOT a smartwatch), or a small alarm clock to keep in your bag, so you can check the time without checking your phone. Same with a calculator, if you think you'll need one.

• An Mp3 player and small Bluetooth speaker/headphones or earbuds. I don't know about you, but I need background noise for all of the above.

• If this is something you want to get in the habit of carrying around as you move around your house throughout the day, also include a water bottle, and your emergency meds. Actually, if you're awful about remembering to take your meds, put all of your meds in your bag. Same goes for your supplements. We're fostering good habits here, right? Just be sure to be safe about it - if your meds are controlled, or if you have young kids, niblings, or grandkids, make sure the meds are in a locked med bag. You can get med bags at any pharmacy.

  • same with any disposable products you may use to handle your menstruation or incontinence. And maybe an extra pair of underwear. You don't know when you'll be down in the kitchen when all of a sudden OOPS, and everything you need is in the upstairs bathroom.

Why yes, these are all great things to include in a surgery bag to keep you occupied in a hospital bed, too!

Obviously, you'll be picking and choosing what goes in your bag based on your own needs, interests and abilities. I recommend picking 1-2 major activities and maybe 1-2 smaller ones, not loading the bag down. You don't need to overwhelm yourself by feeling like you have to get to everything in your bag - this is fun, not work. You'll also be swapping things out as you complete them, so you can take a break from knitting to cross-stitch that one pattern you found, or swap out your jigsaw puzzle for a sudoku book pretty regularly.

In addition to the above - both ukuleles and electric keyboards are affordable new and downright cheap used, and both are very easy to teach yourself with online tutorials.

I also recommend dance tutorials, if you have the body for it - trying to teach myself the Charleston from YouTube was a red flag that Something Was Wrong With My Legs, tbh. And taking a single adult ballet class let me know it was time for a new hip... dance is diagnostic!

Speaking of dance class... go take a class. Check out places like your local library, local cooking school, local STEAM and nature centers, local arts academy, etc, etc... you can learn a new hobby in person, with other people. And, you know... make in-person friends. Spend time in the physical presence of other humans.

Check out what kinds of local groups and meetups are out there, too. If you're planning on needing a large bag for all your yarn, one of the local coffee shops in my area hosts a weekly Fiber Arts Meetup. Might as well bring the bag you already packed, get a cuppa something, and work on your project with other yarn artists. If you'd rather play the kind of card games that take more than one person, half my neighborhood plays Euchre at the local Conservation Club on Sunday nights (go ahead, guess which state I'm from).

Speaking of in-person time together, I also suggest organizing a group of Analog Bag users to get together once a month or maybe every other month to swap the Analog Bag things they aren't using anymore - lightly used, all pieces included Lego sets and jigsaw puzzles, unused craft and scrapbooking supplies, read books you don't want to hang on to, finished art or crafts you don't want to hang on to, etc, etc... If this sounds really interesting, and you want to know more about how this would work, up in the right-hand corner, under "AuntieLinks," you'll find that aforementioned Signal contact - drop me a message, I have organized swaps big and small, and have lots of tips and advice for new swap organizers!

Now, the "Outside Bag" - aka your purse. You're not going to want to haul two bags around everywhere, trust me. Much easier to use a larger purse to store your analog things.

Also much easier to carry around a large bag as your primary when you have smaller "ditto bag" pouches to corral all the small things that would otherwise get lost at the bottom of the bag. Jane Birkin may have been okay with losing things to the abyss, but I can't have that thing be my migraine rescue meds, I can't be quite so quirky about carrying a large bag.

So, what are the components of an "Analog Purse"?

• Mp3 player. Nowadays, they're all Bluetooth compatible, so it's not like you need corded headphones/earbuds, but they are a more obvious signal to others that you can't hear them.

• Book or eReader. Whatever your current read is on. This is something, especially if you're reading a physical copy, that you'll have to remember to move from one bag to the other. If you don't know if you can reliably do that, I recommend keeping a book of short stories or essays in your purse that you can read through one story or essay per appointment wait time, two if they're late.

  • if you're looking to entertain children in waiting rooms, or drunk friends in bars, keeping a book of icebreaker questions, or riddles, or trivia to read out loud is also a good idea. You can usually find them in the novelty books section.

• A puzzle book, as well as pencils and erasers to work them with.

• Craft project. Again, if you can't reliably remember to keep switching your main project from bag to bag, keeping one of those little amigurumi, or small cross stitch pattern kits that have everything included in your purse is smart.

• Travel art supplies/kit. Again, a dedicated mini set for your purse is recommended, separate from your full set at home.

• A stim toy. Do you really need a full distraction, or do you just need something repetitive to do with your hands?

• A calculator, especially if you have dyscalculia like I do.

• A dedicated purse watch. Speaking of Jane Birkin, she looped hers around the handle of her purse so it was handy.

• A digital or film camera. Don't forget to have a backup memory card, or backup roll of film, too.

• A planner, and/or a notebook or journal. Here's where my ADHD is going to keep me on my phone - I will likely start keeping a paper planner in 2026. But it doesn't make noises at me like my phone calendar does. You don't have to go full Happy Planner if you don't want to, Dollar Tree has simple annual daily planners.

  • ladies, and men who MENstruate (sorry, I had to do it...) : this is how we keep track of our bodies. We do not use an app. And once our doctors are caught up, we destroy the record at the end of the year. Understand?

• Again, we're carrying water and emergency meds with us wherever we go now. If you need a smaller travel bottle to carry to keep your bag weight down, legit, go get one.

This is, of course, in addition to all the other stuff you already have in your purse - your wallet, keys, purse essentials/emergency kit, makeup bag, and that's more electronics than you're used to, so you'll likely want to keep an extra battery pack and charging cords around, too... like I said, you're going to need a large purse to be analog. There's a reason things like mini backpacks were popular purses in the 2000's.

As for where to get these things?

• Books & music - check out your local library (even if you don't want to borrow, my library has a sale room where you can purchase used media cheap to support the library), local thrift stores, local used & overstock bookstores, flea markets, Little Free Libraries...

• Puzzle books, jigsaw puzzles, simple journals/notebooks/planners, and stationary - Dollar Tree has been the go-to for years. Remember, you can order by the case and ship-to-store for free from Dollartree.com (they didn't pay me to say any of that, I actually do it myself and find it useful). If a case is too much for you to use, go in on it with your Analog Bag group.

• Craft projects - Michael's or even Dollar Tree is sure to have what you're looking for, but keep your eyes open while thrifting, so many people donate supplies and kits that seemed like a great idea at the time when they bought it.

• Art Supplies - Michael's and even Dollar Tree also has these, but basically every mid-sized city has an independent art supplies store that's revered in the creative community, you likely want to go there to get the best supplies at the best price.

Alright, you have all my best tips for going analog, now go live your best offline life!